So, you’ve met someone interesting and you want to make him want you? Well, you’ve come to the right place! In the dating game, it’s important to understand that attraction is a two-way street. While you can’t control someone else’s feelings, there are certain things you can do to increase your chances of capturing his attention and making him want you.
1. Be Confident and Authentic
Confidence is key when it comes to attracting a man. Be comfortable in your own skin and let your true self shine. Authenticity is incredibly attractive and will make you stand out from the crowd. Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to impress him. Instead, focus on highlighting your strengths and unique qualities.
2. Take Care of Yourself
Physical attraction plays a role in any romantic relationship. Take care of yourself by maintaining good hygiene, dressing in a way that makes you feel confident, and staying active and healthy. When you feel good about yourself, it shows, and others will be drawn to your positive energy.
3. Show Interest, but Maintain Mystery
Show genuine interest in the man you’re trying to attract. Ask him questions, listen actively, and engage in meaningful conversations. However, it’s also important to maintain a sense of mystery. Don’t reveal everything about yourself right away. Leave him wanting to know more about you, and he’ll be more likely to pursue you.
4. Be Independent
Men are attracted to women who have their own lives and interests. Don’t make him the center of your universe. Continue pursuing your own goals and passions, and give him space to do the same. This will not only make you more interesting, but it will also show him that you’re not dependent on him for your happiness.
5. Have Fun and Be Positive
The dating game should be enjoyable, so have fun and be positive. Smile, laugh, and show him that you’re a happy and optimistic person. Positivity is contagious and will make him want to be around you more.
6. Be Supportive
Supporting the man you’re interested in is a great way to make him feel valued and appreciated. Show genuine interest in his goals and dreams, and be there to cheer him on. When he knows that you’re his biggest fan, he’ll be more likely to want you by his side.
7. Maintain Your Standards
While it’s important to be open-minded when it comes to dating, it’s also crucial to maintain your standards. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t treat you with respect or share your values. By valuing yourself and what you deserve, you’ll attract a man who sees your worth and wants to be with you.
8. Be Patient
Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is a strong and lasting connection. Building a meaningful relationship takes time and patience. Don’t rush things or try to force a connection. Allow the relationship to develop naturally, and if it’s meant to be, he will want you in his life.
So, there you have it! By being confident, authentic, and taking care of yourself, you can make a man want you in the dating game. Remember to have fun, be supportive, maintain your standards, and most importantly, be patient. Good luck!
Pastor Michael – Minister of Religion, Christian Marriage Counseling, Christian Relationship Coach, Christian Dating Coach, Christian Life Coach (since 1999), Part of Faithmunity Ministries