Here at Faithmunity.com we provide a Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles, We are eager to see all our members enjoy God’s beautiful gift of emotional happiness and intimacy through a blessed loving relationship and marriage. If your relationship and marriage has God’s blessing you will share a divine emotional and physical intimacy that only comes from God. You will feel closer, and a more profound spiritual connection than ever to God. As you are loved and as you love, you will feel the love of your creator through his ordained soul-mate here in the world. God loves, protects and cares for your every spiritual, physical and emotional need, just has he always has.
“1 I lift up my eyes to the mountains – where does my help come from. 2 My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. 3 He will not let your foot slip – he who watches over you will not slumber. 4 indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. 5 The Lord watches over you – the Lord is your shade at your right hand. 6 the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. 7 The Lord will keep you from all harm – he will watch over your life. 8 the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore” (Psalm 121)
Life is all about discovery and our own unique journey of spiritual growth. We need time and lots of it to mature in body, mind and spirit. Many Christians like to explain this journey of growth with the analogy of seasons. Each season will bring its joys and suffering, but God’s love and protection is ever present for those that seek him.
In Genesis we learn of God’s passionate love for his creation. The Lord God created Adam, the first man and put him into the Garden of Eden and said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion suitable for him”. From the body of Adam the Lord God created Eve, the first women and a suitable companion for Adam. From the very beginnings of creation man was given a companion because. The Lord God said, “It was not good for him to be alone” (Genesis 2:18).
It should be of no surprise that one of our greatest desires and motivations in life is to find a suitable companion, a mate, a soul-mate approved by from God and suitable for us. Here at Faithmunity.com our Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles is committed to helping Christians find their own suitable companion. God created Eve for Adam; she came from Adam and was created from his body. Adam said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man.” (Genesis 2:23).
From the bible it is clear that man was not created to be alone, as there are many verses to support this. In Ecclesiastes we find, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)
From the book of Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 we learn that two people united in a committed relationship are better than one. Here at Faithmunity.com our Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles, allows Christian Singles to seek Christian faith based relationships and marriage). The Bible sees a marriage as the joining of two people each with their own individuality and their own limitations, but when joined together, supporting each other and working together to achieve their common goals they are stronger, safer and happier than they would otherwise be if alone. Through a faith based Christian marriage we support each other emotionally, physically and spiritually, through God ordained marital intimacy. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh“. (Genesis 2:24).
In Ecclesiastes we are reminded of the vital element to a successful marriage, “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:12). A successful marriage is a Godly marriage. A Godly marriage includes GOD. The cord of three strands in a Christian marriage also represents the very nature of God, The Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, the unity of The Holy Trinity and perfect love. When we include of God in our marriage we form a three stranded cord that cannot be broken during times of hardship or suffering. Marriage is God’s gift to his people, the gift of companionship to save us from aloneness, a connected intimacy with our spouse and God to foster hope and spiritual growth to glorify God.
However, there is a time to be married and there is a time to be single. Before we marry we must mature in body and spirit. The person that we will marry also needs time to be marriage ready. This is especially important for those using Faithmunity.com Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles, or any Christian dating websites. God has a plan for each of us, but we often fail to understand that God’s plans have a time frame. God prepares us for all of life’s events, including marriage. God’s timing is perfect and God knows what is best for us, when the time is right and when we are ready. Christian Singles using Faithmunity.com Free Christian Dating Service can rest assured that they simply need to trust in the Lord and when the time is right the Lord will provide. Let God know the desires of your heart and trust that God will answer your prayers in your best interest and when the timing is right. “Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4).
“I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife—and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord” (1 Corinthians 7:32-35).
In the majority of countries around the world a person can legally marry (without parental consent) at 18. So right there you have 18 years of being unmarried and single. Those first 18 years are years of tremendous growth and exploration. Few of us would claim we had it all together at 18. Most of us would agree that we came along way in those first 18 years, but how many of us felt we were ready to marry and be a good husband or wife at the grand old age of 18. The point is this, some of us; most of us will need longer than 18 years to be marriage ready. However, we continue to learn and develop mentally and spiritually. If we marry at 18 or much later, we must trust in the Lord (Psalm 37:4) and his divine timing.
To the members of Faithmunity.com using our Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles, I say to you this; Our Christian Dating Service or any place you can safely socialize and communicate with Christians is a great place to find encouragement and friendship. When the time is right you will find the desires of your heart. Until then, the bible tells us that if we seek God first, all that we need shall be given to us. When we put God first, he is working only for our good and to protect us from harm. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11)
May God Be With You All, Faithmunity.com – Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles